Online Dating – Get Ready!

You’ve decided to join the online dating world. Millions of singles do it – why shouldn’t you. You sit down at the computer and fire up your search engine . . . that is where the trouble starts! How many dating sites are there?! With all these options how will you ever choose? It can be a bit intimidating! Here are a few tips to get you started:Ask FriendsIf you haven’t done so already – talk to your friends and co-workers about their online dating experiences. Most of us have at least one friend or acquaintance that has given it a try. Ask them which sites they’ve used and what they liked and disliked about each one. Remember, just because someone else doesn’t like a site doesn’t mean you won’t. There seems to be a site out there for anything you might be interested in. There are religious dating sites, golf dating sites, dating sites for pet owners, dating sites for shy people, adult dating sites – you name it, there is sure to be a site for it and that is a good thing. Dating sites reflect the personalities of their members.Try Different Dating SitesRegister with several different dating sites and see what their members are like. Most sites that charge a fee to join: Match, True, eHarmony, run 7-day or 14-day Free Trials so take advantage of those to test a site out. Just be sure to read the fine print and cancel before you get charged for a membership you aren’t interested in. The best offers are those from dating sites that don’t require you to give them financial information (credit card, etc) to take advantage of the free trial.Post a Dating Profile PhotoFor the best results you have to post a recent photo on your dating profile. If you don’t like the idea of posting a photo for everyone that comes along to view – find a web site that doesn’t allow non-members to browse and search. ZaZaVu.com is an online dating site that only allows registered members to search profiles and all members post photos on profiles.Give It Some TimeWhen you find a site you like stick with it for a month or two and see how things go. If you still aren’t satisfied try another site.Take a BreakIt is a good idea to take a break from online dating from time to time if you aren’t getting the results you want. Online dating can be exhausting, so take some time off and try it again later. Membership changes constantly so don’t get too discouraged.By trying out different dating sites you’ll quickly be able to find at least one that suits you and what you are looking for. Remember to set reasonable expectations – not every match will be a winner – but do have fun and enjoy meeting new people.© Danette Collins 2006

Dating Etiquette – Common Sense!

Dating is an important activity in a man’s or woman’s life – it is an activity to meet a person of opposite sex, be it for love, romance, and long term relationship. Apart from procreation the union of men and women is a natural process wherein personal life, social life, and community life becomes meaningful.Dating among adults cannot be always for love or romance – it can be there for sex too. Sex is natural to humans who are in totality sexual beings. Whether you are in for sex dating or dating for romance, there some simply etiquette involved which although is common sense but then men forget, and women too can be bad examples.First, if you are seeking some one through online dating sites – which have become the norm for finding soul mates or sex partner today – be polite when messaging or interacting on chat or web cams. You may not like the person or may not be willing to date him for one reason or other. Be polite in your refusal and do come up with a sensible excuse for not continuing the interaction further.If you decide to meet someone then reach on time. On the other hand, if you are not able to keep the appointment then inform in time and ask for a new date.On your first meeting, your date may be jittery or nervous. Do not be flashy or arrogant. It really helps if you start with a light conversation and get to know each other well.Always ask where he or she would like to spend the evening with you, this helps, as your date may be more comfortable in a place of his or her choice.Have a friendly approach, and please do not look in the breasts, as it is rude to make sexual advance without your partners consent. An eye contact or a light kiss is always better way to start. Any way it is not advisable to go for sex until unless you know your partner well.Again do not brag and please do not smoke or drink copiously. Do not smoke in restaurants or public places it will only show how crass you are. Rather smoke and drink only with the consent of your partner or if both like to do so.Never brag about your past escapades your date has not come to listen to all that. Rather be witty and informative in you conversation to make the evening interesting for your partner.Do not show off your money or anything flashy, as it does not help. Your date has come around to know you as a person and not what you have. As a man, you will only end up as making her feel like a cheap whore.Create conversation on subject you both are knowledgeable about, a one sided conversation means that you may not see her or him again. The whole idea is make the date enjoyable and fun. Moreover, giving your partner the joy of having somebody new and interesting entering one’s life. That is what one is dating for in the first place. Right!

Do Adult Sites Need Dedicated Servers?

With the inception of the Internet, the online adult websites are minting huge money and have proved to be a great venture for their owners. The adult website owners have been actively able to generate plenty of dollars every month only from adult content, images, videos, blogging and so forth. However, as they say, when there is popularity, there are certain loopholes as well. Hosting of adult websites also require the website owners as well as adult web hosts to abide with the legalities involved therein.Basically, the adult web hosting laws differ from country to country and state to state within one country. Due to its globally-wide demand, it becomes difficult for the web hosts and the web owners to adhere to all the different laws in different locations. Some of the essentials though include not having any content on your website showing child pornography and only using a model on your website who is of legal age of 18 years and above.You must also have the documents ready to prove the legality of their age, and if any model is unable to submit such documents, you are not authorised to have their sexually explicit images on your website. There should be a warning page on your adult website to be the first thing the visitors to see, mentioning that your website is an adult website, not appropriate for anyone under the age of 18. It is further advised that your website supports some sort of Age Verification System. Never show scenes related to rape, incest and bestiality on your websites. If possible, also have some non-adult related content on your website, to make your website have some degree of cultural and literary value.Having a dedicated server to cater to the varied requirements of your adult website is advisable. Not just dedicated servers offer you the security of your data and web content, but also provide the website owners with extra bandwidth, as may be required to upload a number of jpeg files and large-sized videos. Some of the known web hosting companies that accept adult content include HostGator, WebHostingPad and ThePlanet. The HostGator offers adult web hosting plans in the US starting from 4.95 dollars to 374 dollars per month. They also provide cPanel control panel and support for PHP, Perl, CGI and MySQL databases.WebHostingPad offers affordable website hosting for as low as 1.99 dollars per month. It also allows adult web content to be hosted on their Linux Web Servers, with support for scripting languages like PHP, Perl, CGI and Ruby on Rails. ThePlanet offers dedicated servers for adult content websites starting from 60 dollars per month, whilst offering more power and flexibility comparatively. It also offers a variety of dedicated hosting products ranging from cheap dedicated servers to fully managed servers so that you can choose your server as per your specifications and your budget.